Have a forgiving heart to be a perfect person
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This world is a world of many characteristics. Think about it? How many characters has the World seen since people started living from it? If you could write on paper with a pen like mine, what would be your experience with human beings?
There wasn’t enough paper to write on and pen to write on. If all the oceans in the world were pencils and if the balloons in the trees in the world were paper, the world’s experiences would not be enough to write about.
Many cruel and inhuman people have lived in it. For example, history remembers parents like Nero. he is very stubborn. Nero was a Roman emperor who ruled with great power two thousand years ago.
He was one of the greatest kings in the world who were known for their cruelty. He has operated on his mother’s abdomen with a sword to see what the womb looks like. He has killed his beloved wife because of her childlessness.
He has killed his son for no reason. It has killed many thousands of people. For him, seeing human sorrow is a source of joy. He was a brutal man who killed and enjoyed human death.
Another of the world’s most bitter and terrible memories of cruelty is Hitler, the dictator of Germany. The most tragic thing is that the churches in Germany supported this cruel queen.
However, they later responded. They took time to think about His command to find in the Bible that the Jewish nation should be destroyed. They are the ones who finally killed the Son of God, Jesus. They have sworn that his blood should be required of us and his son. So this nation will get its own job.
God did not create us on earth to live on earth in wickedness. I don’t understand how we created ourselves to be lovers when our Creator is good. Where did we get the hatred when our father was a father of love.
Why did we, born of a true father, choose the path of falsehood? Everyone carries their own problems as well as their own illnesses. Whether you like it or not, someone will hurt you in one way or another.
Whether it’s your mother who you borrowed a kidney with in your mother’s womb, your childhood friend who you grew up with and spent so much with, A loving friend you trust with all your heart Anyone will hurt you. Man is not only hurting his fellow man but also his creator.
The great thing about his human identity is that he understands the nature they have and can respond appropriately to the right plot. Not holding grudges in your heart. Among the animals, the camel has long been known to hold a grudge. But don’t live with him like a camel with a grudge.
If someone hurts you for something, focus on the reason why they hurt you, not him. It’s not always like people want to hurt you with a knife. They don’t plot against you to make you sad. So don’t judge someone just because they’ve done you wrong.
Understanding the people around you is a great gift. What does one look like in nature? Is the problem he caused you perhaps related to his nature? What was man in when he committed the crime? Was there anything that had upset him?
Did he knowingly work the three offenses to cement them or did he work them with difficulty? If someone doesn’t want to cement it but has no choice but to cement it, it’s better to hurt someone than to hurt you.
So don’t judge people too quickly. Avoid being quick to judge people. There is something in the Bible that they support. That is, Conquering Evil with Good.
Think about it once. If that were the case, the World would be a haven for people who care more about others than themselves and there would be no selfishness in it.
Do not repay your brother evil for evil. Don’t curse someone who curses you.
Bless it. Don’t blow up what you have from someone who has given you something. Don’t dig a pit for someone who dug a pit for you. Help in every way you can. Don’t throw a stone at someone who throws a stone at you. For the butter to stretch.
Think of it as happening to someone who hurt you and you think of it as happening.
Remember:- Nielsen Mandela, who can be an example of forgiveness for the generation, after being released from prison for 27 years, forgave those who hurt him.
He has hosted a luncheon for the prosecutor who had asked for the death penalty. He forgave him in a way that surprised the whole world. The hatred you have in your heart is definitely more likely to hurt the man you are holding on to.
There are many diseases associated with forgiveness. On the other hand, there are many benefits to forgiveness. Consider some of them below.
1, Forgiveness is getting someone out of prison, and that person is you.
2, Forgiving people protects you from many diseases.
3, Forgiveness will make your future beautiful.
4, Forgiveness gives peace of mind.
5, Forgiveness is possible.
You Need Forgiveness
You are human, and there is nothing that sets you apart from humans.
Just like people with cement, you have hurt someone. As you keep the hopes of many people in your mind, how many people will blame you for the wrongs you have done to them? There are many.
Fortunately, humans have eyes to destroy others, not their own mistakes. If they do, I don’t see it with my eyes. This is a common human problem. Victims are known for identifying and condemning people who work.
But we do not give way to our own faults. We want the world to be just the way we want it to be. We don’t want to be like our brother. The disease requires immediate treatment.
Don’t just pick up on your brother’s mistakes, but also remember your own. Believe that the injury you cause is no less than the injury you cause someone to cement.
Remember the words of the Lord Jesus, Before you take the speck out of your brother’s eye, take the speck out of your own eye. You see, many people have pillars in their eyes. But they do not see the pillar.
Reaching out to remove the little hole in people’s eyes. Why is humanity selfish? Why focus on human weaknesses instead of his own? Why does he justify himself and make his brother guilty? The world needs people with forgiving hearts now more than ever.
They opened their hearts to the bale’s and lived with people. If you don’t open your heart, the new world has no place for you. Gradually, she gives you into danger and leads you on. This is not a time to focus on people’s crimes but on the benefits they get from them.
This is not a time for parents to carry it in from the head, but for parents to humble themselves and understand people with their situation.
A person who is heartbroken, A person who is impatient, A person who does not apologize and accept forgiveness is not worthy of today’s world. She simply gives them their value. She gives him the necessary salary and passes him on to the next world.
Just as you cannot live in the world without people, you cannot live without forgiveness. Don’t think you can. Apologizing and giving is a sign of maturity. Don’t hesitate to do that whenever you think it’s necessary.
No matter what people say, don’t let their words hurt you. Even if he does something good, people will probably criticize you. This is a natural thing. If he avoids making mistakes, people will not lose what they think he made.
Fear of criticism limits you from living your true identity. The advice someone gives you is sometimes necessary but it shouldn’t be the gong around your life. If you are not making your own decisions independently, you are inhuman to yourself.
That is very dangerous. It means you have to rely on people’s opinions for everything you do. Being such a person will make you afraid of what to say and stop doing what is right. First people tell you that you are wrong.
Then they tell you that you are right but that your work is not important. They tell you that being right on the issue is also useful for doing work. Don’t be self-confident enough to apologize by making your life based on people’s opinions.
Apologize to all the people you think you have wronged. Apologize for every mistake your mind can think of. This is what man and God love. There is no religious scripture that contradicts this idea.
Let your attitude toward forgiveness be positive. Don’t let your position on this issue be shaken by anything. Forgiveness is on the agenda of the big ones. It is an act of the minds of adults.
Forgiveness is a measure of human mental maturity. It is a great opportunity given to mankind. Using it is your role. I urge you to make a decision today. If you can, have a forgiving heart to be at peace with everyone.
Leave it to everyone. One of the greatest gifts you can give yourself is the gift of forgiveness. Leave it to everyone. One day I went as one of the elders chosen to reconcile neighbors who had been fighting for a long time.
I was not an elder compared to the elders I was elected with but I accepted the invitation to be an elder. The two quarreling parties came and sat between us and the elders went for reconciliation and we took turns talking about reconciliation, the importance of reconciling, the benefits of forgiveness, about praise and other important points.
Finally, we gave the authorities a chance to speak. Both told us about their cases before and after. Although the fight over the issue doesn’t raise the bar so much, the guys are extremely angry with each other.
Their problem was that it was very difficult for them to control their emotions when they spoke. We listened to their side of the story and then gave them our opinion. Finally, we asked them to forgive each other.
One of them assured us that he was ready to reconcile and we were very happy.
Because he informed us that one was not willing to reconcile at all and that it was not permissible.
We asked why he didn’t want to be reconciled. He told us you don’t know, I know how much I was hurt and I can never forget or forgive the plot he committed against me, so don’t get tired of it yourself. Even if God came and threw me down to hell, I would not be forgiven.
The man’s determination not to reconcile was not easy. I expressed my sorrow for the words he had spoken. Where are you now?
What is the difference between living in hell without reaching this level of hatred and resentment? I asked the guy. Weak people cannot forgive. Forgiveness is a characteristic of the brave. I share this thought.
Weak people choose to live with resentment and hatred rather than forgiving others. In life, people will inevitably conflict, whether they are close to each other, whether they love something, whether they understand each other, human beings are naturally in conflict.
Sometimes our nose pinches our tongue. One of our legs hits the other and knocks us down. The result of being one body and colliding. That’s natural. The important thing is not the conflict with people, but how we resolve the conflict.
This is what makes the difference in our lives. Some people are quick to forgive the hurt of those who hurt them. Others live with memories and resentment for the rest of their lives. The issue is choice.
Forgiving the people who hurt you and living a free life or filling your heart with the poison of hatred and burning with it. I wonder why humanity so quickly forgets the good things that happen to it, and why it doesn’t forget the bad things that happen to it. We often forget the good things in our lives quickly.
We don’t remember so much the kindness people people around us have done for us, nor the great events they have done for us. I don’t think there is anything in nature that forgets life like humans. Sadly, we live together remembering the wrongs people do to us for a long time.
You forget the help your brother gave you three years ago, but you remember the tongue he used to insult you fifteen years ago as if it were yesterday. Isn’t it? I think this is a common characteristic that we as human beings don’t have in common. As a nation, the problem of not forgiving each other is at a worrying level.
Families are not at peace with each other, Many people who work together in the same office have unhealthy hearts for each other, many marriages are sick due to lack of forgiveness between husband and wife. Because of a lack of forgiveness, we sometimes take unkind actions.
Show that humanity has a great negative power of hatred to see someone like him kill. I believe that if we could overcome the feelings of hatred inside us, if we made it a habit to forgive the hurt of those who hurt us, if we allowed love to lead us, our world would not be in this multifaceted fear.
In short, the biggest problem of our world is the hate-driven emotions of human beings. If you want to make your life count, one of the most important things you need to do is to be free from hatred and resentment.
Hatred and resentment are the enemies of the hidden achievement. They are a big obstacle to you bringing out the hidden talents you have been given by Nature and leaving you in a place you don’t deserve.
So you need to make sure you are free from these major enemies of your life. A person who lives in hatred lives in darkness.
If he lives in darkness, you will stumble and fall. Your heart naturally has room for love, not hate. But you can put hate in the place of love. If so, one fact you need to understand is that it will always cost you. Did you see it? Your heart is yours alone.
There is no one to share with you.
It carries whatever you put in it. If you put love on the throne of your heart, there will be freedom and happiness. You will feel good. The world will be your best seat.
The health of your seat is the foundation of all your success. Even if you remove the hatred, the seat of your heart will still be carried. It means you are led by a sense of cement. You corrupt your inner world. That will lead you to failure. So choosing love over hate is a great skill.
Important guidelines
I will share with you some very important guidelines below that will help you to live a life free of hatred and resentment, to forgive those who hurt you and to apologize to those who hurt you.
Always know that people are like cement.
The forest caught fire and one day the trees and animals in the forest began to burn. A man was walking when he reached the forest.
While looking at the hope, his eyes settled on something and he saw a burning snake. He saw the burning snake and did not keep silent. He decided to save it. He ran to it and grabbed it and snatched it out of the fire.
Sadly, the snake took out the arm of fire and tied it up. The man’s hand hurt so much that he threw him to the ground. The snake began to burn again. The man still did not give up on saving him from the snake’s burning.
He looked for a long stick and lifted him up to a place where there was no fire. While all this was happening, many people were standing and watching.
You tried to pull the snake out of the fire, but he tied your hand.
Finally she pulled him out of the fire with a stick. But why is it? Why did you save him from the fire when he tied your hand? They asked the man. The man’s response was amazing. That’s right, the snake I pulled out of the furnace has tied my hand, and my hand hurts.
But do you know what it is? Snake Naturally biting. That’s his Nature. I am characterized by saving Nature. He will bind and I will save. The actions of the snake do not make him save me from my character.
He said he would save him while I was being bitten. You have a loving and forgiving nature. Don’t let the actions of the wicked stop you from doing your best character.
In social life, you are surrounded by people with different characteristics, so it is important to know that you can be hurt at any time. Human beings are creatures with complex identities and characteristics.
Someone you never tasted from biting you can ever bite you. Especially if people hurt you seriously with a knife before you hurt him. The damage people do with cement is much greater if you don’t anticipate that they can hurt you more than they can.
Whether anyone has a reason or not, if you remember in advance that he might hurt you one day, his actions are not new to you, and he will be able to cope to some extent.
If you don’t thirst, you’ll get hurt a lot. So know that the people around you are humans, not angels of God, and that anyone can plot against you at any time. Not only the good things from people but also the bites of victims and conspiracies. Someone will stab you with a thorn.
Conquer Evil With Good.
Don’t do to people what you don’t want to do to yourself. Once he realizes that people can hurt him at any time, the next step is to overcome their evil with goodness. This step is very difficult. Why is it easy to be kind to someone who has done you a favor but it is so hard to be kind to someone who has hurt you.
It is said that the one who puts butter in the mouth puts stones. Proverbs to describe the wickedness of mankind. What about the opposite of this proverb? Whoever puts a stone in his mouth puts butter in his mouth.
It’s a little strange, isn’t it? This should have been the proverb. What do you thirst for from someone who puts a stone in your mouth? Isn’t it like putting a stone in your mouth?
It is said that the stone of our mouth is hated by the person who replies to the mouth of the stone. The man you put a stone in our mouth and butter in your mouth is not hating you, but defeating you.
He showed you that the love in him prevails over the hatred in you. It is easy to repay evil with evil, but it does not bring solutions. Let him who blinds his eyes be blinded, the law will eventually make us all blind.
If someone takes out our eyes and we take them out, we will take turns taking out each other’s eyes and become blind. Darkness cannot drive out darkness, but light drives out darkness.
If you are accustomed to it, it is your habit to bite someone and it is heroic to lift them into the fire. If you decide that you will overcome the evil people do to me with kindness, believe me and you will find a life strategy that few heroes follow.
Leave It For Yourself
It is not only the person you forgive who needs your forgiveness. It is you yourself who needs it most. Why is it? Because the feelings of hatred and resentment that are stored inside you are the ones that hurt you.
Notice that the jealousy and hatred of your personal treasures stored in your heart will always be with you. It is you, not the man who hurt you, who hurts you. Hating is poisoning yourself and waiting for someone else to die with it.
That being said, it is foolish to expect your enemy to die with the negative poison in your heart. It is a cement to be fingered by someone who is like a cement who may have forgotten.
It also exposes you to social. When you forgive people who hurt you, you get yourself out of prison. It means you divorce yourself. That will give you great peace of mind. Now I want you to decide something as you read this book. Not to live with hatred and resentment.
This is a matter of choice. Can you choose to give way to hatred and resentment in your heart and be hurt. On the other hand, you can choose to cultivate only love in your heart and free your life.
You are fully responsible for any choices you make. The reality is that the choices you decide to make will have a huge impact on your life. If he chooses light, he lives in light and if he chooses darkness, he lives in darkness. I don’t have time to tell you which one is wise. Because you know that light is much better than darkness.
Stay Away From Love
I am not encouraging you to hate anyone in your life. Why is it? Because it’s a dark hatred. But can you do something. What is it? Lovingly avoid people who hurt you. One of the most important Righteousness in the social life of human beings is called loving avoidance.
You can live your own life away from love without hating, without resentment, without wishing bad luck. What do you think is the importance of this guideline? It prevents people from hurting you a second time with a cement once. That is probably why it is said to forgive your enemy but not to forget his name.
You should not give people a chance to hurt you again. You must forgive him wholeheartedly for past wrongs but be careful not to give him a chance to turn from them.
One of the best opportunities life has given you is that you have the full right to choose the people you are close to. You may not have the opportunity to choose your family, but you can choose to spend time with friends.
Knowing which people to attract and which people to keep away from and putting what you know into practice is very crucial to your survival and success.
The main point to understand here is that alienating does not mean hating. You can love and think positively away from yourself. The closer someone in your life is to you, the more they will influence you. This is a fact of life.
The person closest to you can have the greatest influence on you. So,you have to be very careful about the people you introduce to yourself. Peer pressure is a powerful force that can change your life, so don’t take it lightly.
Don’t be afraid to apologize
Apologizing to someone you offended is not defeat. It’s winning. Many people don’t apologize to people even though they know they’re wrong because they often see doing that as a defeat.
One of the hardest words for many people to say is, I’m sorry. Don’t find it hard to apologize to people when you’re sure you’ve done something wrong See? That’s a sign of your maturity.
It also shows your emotional maturity. It’s not just about blaming people and apologizing. And don’t hesitate to forgive those who offend you. Realize that there is no better time to forgive or accept.
No appointment is required for forgiveness. Why? If you are scheduled for tomorrow, you do not know whether he will come tomorrow or not. Who knows what’s going to happen in a second? Apologize right now.
I wonder if you’ve ever heard of people who regret the death of someone who died without apologizing. There is nothing more regrettable than losing someone’s life without apologizing when you have done something wrong. Because it is impossible to apologize to someone who is not alive.
